The fence is always greener on the other side

The speaker was talking about clubs with problems that look at other clubs and assume everything is going smoothly.  This is a mash up of “the grass is always greener on the other side” (other people seem to be in a better situation than you, although that might not be the case) and maybe “on the fence” (undecided).  A shout out to Daniel Mustard for sending this one in!  Daniel needs to ketch up and send in more malaphors.